
Leadership isn’t about titles, corner offices, or how loudly you can speak in a meeting. It’s about who you are when no one’s watching — and how you show up for others when things get hard.
As leaders, we’re not looking for perfection. We’re looking for potential — and the character that turns it into something remarkable.
What We Do Look For
We look for initiative — the person who doesn’t wait for a memo to tell them what’s obvious. They see what needs doing and just get on with it. Bonus points if they do it without sighing loudly first.
We look for innovation — not the kind that involves writing “THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX” on a whiteboard, but the real kind — the one that finds new, better, smarter ways of doing things when the box is already on fire.
And we look for independence — the person who quietly gets things done while everyone else is still forming a committee about it. The one who can be trusted to handle it, fix it, or find a way through it — all without a daily pep talk.
Over and above this, they do an excellent job. They deliver unquestionable results in their area of expertise and others look up to them. They are an inspiration. A great example.
They buy into the vision and live the values. They help others see the vision and live the values.
These are the seeds of real leadership. They don’t always grow fast, but when they do, they change everything.
What We Don’t Look For
We don’t look for the team snitch — you know, the self-appointed “reporting channel” who mistakes gossip for initiative.
If you spend more time narrating other people’s shortcomings than improving your own, spoiler alert: that’s not leadership.
We don’t look for arrogance disguised as ambition. The “I’m not bossy, I just have better ideas than everyone” type. Confidence is great — but humility looks better on everyone.
And we definitely don’t look for the person who steps on others to be seen. You can’t claim to be a leader when your team needs a first aid kit after every meeting.
The Humble Kind of Leadership
The best leaders are the ones who make others feel capable, valued, and seen. They don’t steal the spotlight; they share it. They celebrate the quiet wins, support their team through the storms, and never forget that leadership is a privilege — not a power play.
True leadership is humble, human, and deeply supportive. It’s less about control and more about contribution.
The Curveball
If you want to lead, start by helping others succeed. Be the calm in the chaos, the voice of reason in the WhatsApp group, and the person who notices effort — not just errors.
Because true leaders don’t create followers; they create more leaders. And if you can do that with a bit of humility, humour, and heart — you’re already halfway there.
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